This tip might sound easy but a lot of couples struggle with it. One is not tired when the other one is. You might be a night owl and your spouse likes early mornings. I’m here to challenge you to make bedtimes important enough that you need to do them together. Going to bed at the same time gives you a chance to talk and share. To pray together for your family and each other.
There are so many reasons why it is important to start this habit early in your marriage. It does not take much talking in the beginning to go to bed together; there is anticipation of spending time together at the end of the day. A healthy sex life is very important in a marriage.
With online chat rooms and online gambling and other unsavory things that can be found online being in bed with the one you love will keep you out of trouble. Temptations seem to hit us in the middle of the night when there is a computer involved.
And guys I don’t get it, sitting up in the living room watching the game and sending your wife to bed alone. Women, playing games on the computer while your hard working men go to bed alone. The worse thing you can do is make your spouse feel unwanted and unloved. They just might go looking for someone who will want to go to bed with them.
Your action step – go to bed with the one you love.
Ron and Shawn make up the “Odd Couple.” We are a husband and wife team who have been together for the last 27 years. We have laugh, cried, fought, made up, and made more mistakes then any two people could. Through it all we have raised the greatest three kids in the world! We would like to offer you a free report we put together titled 10 Marriage Help Tips Report with video. Click here for the link. Here is a picture of us at the World Famous Ft Worth, TX Stockyards.